Thomas, Jersey
Facing the Unexpected: My Prostate Cancer Journey
When you hear the word cancer, it changes everything. For me, that moment came out of the blue. I was fit, active, and had no symptoms. My PSA level was only 3.4 well within what is often considered a ‘not dangerous’ range. No family history. Nothing to suggest that prostate cancer was lurking in the background. And yet, it was.
The Diagnosis That Didn’t Seem to Fit
I had always been proactive about my health, but if I’m honest, prostate cancer wasn’t something I thought I needed to worry about. It was only through routine testing that doctors flagged something unusual. Even then, the doctors and I were not overly concerned. But a biopsy confirmed the reality: I had prostate cancer. It was a shock, not just for me, but for my family, friends, and colleagues.
The Decision to Undergo Surgery
Given my age, overall health, and the nature of the cancer, I opted for a radical prostatectomy in the summer of 2024. It wasn’t an easy choice, but I wanted to take the most decisive action possible. The procedure went as planned, but as anyone who has been through this knows, surgery is just one part of the journey.
Recovery: More Than Just Physical Healing
Physically, I had prepared myself for the challenges of recovery, regaining continence (as it turned out. I didn’t have any issues once the catheter was removed), rebuilding strength, and adapting to the changes. But the mental side of things was just as tough. Even when you get through treatment, there’s an emotional weight that lingers. You question things. You worry about recurrence. You redefine what normal means.
Through it all, my fitness and discipline helped. Staying active wasn’t just about physical recovery; it gave me a sense of control. And support from my family, friends, and colleagues made all the difference.
Thankfully my subsequent blood have shown an untraceable PSA level so I am in the clear for now
Lessons Learned: What I Want Others to Know
If there’s one message I’d share with anyone reading this, it’s don’t ignore your prostate health, even if you feel fine. A PSA test is the first step. Be proactive. Ask questions. Push for answers if something feels off.
And if you’re on this journey already, know this: you’re not alone. The road through diagnosis, treatment, and recovery is different for everyone, but there’s strength in sharing our experiences.
For those who’ve been through it, how did you cope with the emotional and physical side of recovery? Just start a conversation because support can make all the difference.